From Caregiver to Perennial

Welcome! If you’re visiting my little patch of virtual soil, it’s probably safe to say that you’re a Caregiver. And because your identity is securely tethered to that role, it’s hard to keep the parts of yourself alive that have nothing to do with caregiving. You know – the painter, the quilter, the photographer, the writer, the crafter, the gardener – to name a few.

Well, now we’re going to explore a second possibility, as well – that you’ve come through caregiving, or another kind of soul-changing experience, and are wondering who you are or who you want to be in this new life of yours. You are what I call a Perennial. Someone strong enough to survive the winters of your life, and blossom with each new spring and summer, and in the fall – ready to reflect on the past and sow your hopes for the future.

No matter which of these descriptions resonate with your amazing self, you’ve come to the right place.

Here’s the plan. We’re going to do some exploring, tap into our creative side, and gather up big handfuls of joy. Along the way, I’ll share my own low-budget journey of self-discovery, art and writing prompts that go deep, inspiring conversations with women just like us, and tons more goodness.

Of course, there will always be lots of support and encouragement for those walking the caregiver path, because nothing will ever change the fact that You. Are. My. People. Just think of this as a mini-retreat where we open ourselves up to possibility, and embrace the potential of what comes next.

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Still not sure? Here’s a little Q & A to help you decide.

Will it be mouthy and good-humored? Uh, hello, it’s me.

Open and honest? Still me.

Positive and hopeful? Yes, more please.

Fun, yet practical? As a bohemian soul with a bean-counter’s brain, count on it.

 

6 Comments

  1. Janet Green says:

    Love the perennial description! Sounds just like me.

    • Judith Henry says:

      Janet, thanks so much! It’s the perfect way to describe us. 🙂 Happy to be on the journey with you.

  2. Colleen Kavanaugh says:

    Judith, I am so excited to see this beautiful virtual garden you are planting! I’m all in!

    • Judith Henry says:

      Yay!Thank you, Colleen! Nothing better than spending time in the garden with good friends.

  3. Diane says:

    Perfect timing! My husband is about to enter a long term care facility. I have been worried about what I will be doing to come back to myself. Thank you!!

    • Judith Henry says:

      Diane, I know many women in exactly your situation, and figuring out what brings you joy, even with life’s challenges, is so important. So glad to have you on this journey!

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